About Us

The end result for me
was a sense of calm
because I now could
see that I had a
choice which in
essence I was blind to
before...
~Lisa McD.,
Resource Nurse
Montgomery General
Hospital

With Toni Trexler's
insights and
coaching, I was able
to break through the
confusion and create
a more powerful
relationship with my
peers.
~Susan L.,
V.P. of Johnson &
Johnson

I was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis in July, 2007. In October of that year, Toni's coaching was given to me
as a gift by a dear friend. Over the span of several months, Toni assisted me through the process of denial,
anger, resentment, and acceptance of my disease. She has the ability to make the murky, clear. Every time
there seemed to be a closed door in my path, Toni would open that door with her compassionate, gentle, yet
firm manner. Her faith in herself is strong yet her faith in the client is stronger. Toni is the main reason for my
current mental, emotional, and physical health. She has helped to create in me a quiet confidence. I am at
peace with MS because of Toni.
~ Carole Potter Concari
School Teacher/Mom   Eldersburg, MD

While Vice President for Johnson & Johnson I was struggling with a breakdown in communication with two of
my peers. This was causing loss of productivity and alignment between departments. Although I believed I
understood the basis of the breakdown and was working to recreate the relationship, Toni was able to coach
me to see that there was another possible cause. With her insights and coaching, I was able to break through
the confusion and create a more powerful relationship with my peers. Toni’s ability to listen carefully and
understand the dynamics of human relationships was critical to changing the situation.
~ Susan Lemons
Vice President, Johnson & Johnson   Princeton, NJ

As an independent business owner I work from my home office. Toni has helped me create balance between
my family and career responsibilities, helped me create structures to be accountable to myself to complete
tasks that further my goals and play full out to achieve them. She has also helped me gain perspective on
where I put up roadblocks so I can notice them and get them out of the way before I sabotage myself! Before I
worked with Toni my perspective was that I had to choose and prioritize and sacrifice to have family home and
work balanced. Toni has helped me create having it all- a fulfilling career on my terms, a wonderful relationship
with my children and time for myself.
~ Dorine Scher
Independent Sr. Sales Director & Trainer for The Pampered Chef   Falls Church, VA

Toni’s coaching delivers bottom line results and performance breakthroughs. In just a single conversation, Toni
allowed me to overcome a myriad of obstacles and focus squarely on the work required to complete a key
business transaction; in a recent hostile corporate acquisition that was emotionally and politically charged and
subject to seemingly impossible time constraints. Toni coached me in creating a solution in which all of the
competing participants felt they had achieved a clear victory – and as a result they were fully committed to
implementing an effective yet unorthodox solution. Employee morale was improved (52 jobs were saved), net
asset value was increased by 43% in 30 days, legal fees estimated at $1.5 million were avoided and
shareholder buy-in was rescued. This has subsequently translated into my company being offered to
participate as lead adviser in three additional merger transactions with an estimated value of $980 million in
the next two years.
Toni combines her business acumen, methodical techniques and coaching skills to rapidly assess areas of
strengths and weaknesses in a variety of complex situations for both organizations and interpersonal
relationships. She understands the management and organizational sides of running a business as well as the
importance of leading a satisfying personal life. Her coaching energizes me by offering fresh perspectives and
advice that can be put to work immediately. In particular, her ability to challenge assumptions that stifle
creativity and recommend innovative solutions that exploit my competencies allows me to focus on achieving
breakthrough results. Moreover, conversations with Toni allow me to communicate effectively with family,
friends and co-workers, leading to strong relationships with the key people in my life.
Toni’s mentoring requires me to hold myself accountable for results and inspires me to lead a powerful
personal and professional life. Her coaching has helped me effectively manage and focus fully on the things
that are essential. For this reason, I unreservedly recommend Toni as a personal or business coach.
~ Victor Horcasitas
Managing Director, Trinity Advisers Limited   Barcelona, Spain

Toni's ability to actively listen and apply her in depth understanding of human relations/dynamics in a caring and
dynamic way energizes you and fosters a wonderful learning environment that facilitates your own awareness of
your inner self that will ultimately impact the way you see things and thus handle certain situations.
I was faced with a challenging situation that involved a particular individual's communication style and I was
struggling with developing the best means to address the issue. The barriers that impacted me from moving
forward with resolution was my preconceived thoughts about the intentions of the other individual. This resulted
in me becoming emotionally charged and digging my heels in with a predetermined outcome without giving the
individual involved a chance to clarify/discuss the issue. I had the fortunate opportunity to be able to share this
with Toni and through her coaching she was able to help me gain better insight to my own feelings and thoughts
that were impacting my perception of the situation. Toni facilitated a change in my mind set through her
coaching resulting in my realization that I had a choice. I could continue down the path I was on or seek out the
individual for clarification. The end result for me was a sense of calm because I now could see that I had a
choice which in essence I was blind to before discussing this with Toni.    Thanks Toni for making a difference!
~Lisa McDermott
Montgomery General Hospital, Resource Nurse   Olney, Maryland

Testimonials>

In just a single
conversation, Toni
allowed me to
overcome a myriad of
obstacles and focus
squarely on the work
required to complete
a key business
transaction.
~Victor H.,
Managing Director of
Trinity Advisers Ltd.

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